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    Surgery to restore virginity. Would YOU do it too?

    Hmmm...very thought-provoking. You know, the religion IS very much misunderstood. There're a lot of bias due to available information. We use too much heuristics - Judgements are not accurate as a result. The topic of Islam isn't unique, people may think that all Chinese are smart, for example...
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    Surgery to restore virginity. Would YOU do it too?

    You don't bleed much, man. Not 2 litres, but about 5ml?! When I first did "it", I wanted to have the surgery so that I could be "pure" again on my wedding night. Whatever that means. I'm Buddhist, even though it isn't emphasized as much, I still felt that I'd done wrong somehow. You're only...
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    For Girlies

    I've had a few guys confess their undying love (ergh). ...but not really, but my heart hammers really fast - nervous of what he'd do next. You do get flattered and excited, but then you'd prolly realize that you wouldn't want to be with him when you've calmed down.
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    This Year's Fashion Has Been Really Shit, Why Doesn't Anyone Else Agree?

    Errrm, don't get me wrong, not all were hideous; I mean, Supre and the like were... ...but SES has been "the usual" and Suite 62 has been great too. My clothes don't generally go above $20 or even $15, yet they fit. You've just gotta know where to look - I really hate those hideous looking...
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    Repeat year 12 again?.....

    Errr...you're already inferring 'again' when you say 'repeat'. Saying 'repeat again' is a tautology - 'do again again'.
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    Important message for eye health.

    Errr...it's a bit late for my left eye, everything gets fuzzy beyond half a metre, but my right one can see really far.
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    your current favourite song

    It's a Chinese one - from "Beautiful Myth".
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    Romance..........

    Nah, it's just that I'm against going on the Pill, so we're using condoms. I'll never go on the Pill or any type of western contraception methods, too unnatural on the system, but I'm looking forward to eastern methods. No chemicals and just as reliable. By "no protection" there, I meant the...
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    Help, im pregnant and 15.

    Come on, those who're saying that it wouldn't affect someone's life too much by having the child are kidding themselves. It will be a burden, keep or adopt. ...but, back to it, if circumstances permit, then keep the baby and it'll be a happy family. Yet, it's a mistake made, no matter what.
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    Help, im pregnant and 15.

    Seriously, it's the other way around...the more rigid your answer is, the worse, really. Even if this is a game, still, in real situations, the more flexible the reply, the better. If one doesn't have anything helpful but only critical to say, then leave it in. It's someone else's decision and...
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    Is Homophobia Associated With Homosexual Arousal?

    Hmmm...what are the p-values for this? Are they significant? I don't have time to read the full article. It's also a widely known fact, just watch "American Beauty"!
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    Romance..........

    I won't talk much about sex - 'cos my first time was 'go with the flow' and wasn't planned...it was also 'unfinished', if you know what I mean. We're waiting to finish it without protection. Though on Valentine's Day this year, we had candles around his room, painted with the most beautiful blue...
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    i want to have a wedding :(

    Yeah, but you know a good match when you see one. My b.f. knows I want a ring but we have to be patient and wait for the right time, in like, 6 years. I laugh and joke about wanting a huge diamond and he knows, hasn't been put off by it and actually look forward to it.
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    i want to have a wedding :(

    If you're desperate for photos, then no one's stopping you at taking professional dream photos like StarShots. I got my first ones taken at 16, and planning to do that every few years. It depends on where you go, some may seem lifeless, but some just make you look gorgeous. I haven't gone so...
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    Sex before marriage, would you or wouldn't you?

    What are you on about? I don't get it... anyway, out of this thread, said all I could lol.
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    Sex before marriage, would you or wouldn't you?

    Ah, well, it all comes down to whether sex is meaningful in the traditional sense for people or not, really. If you're a 'traditionist', then yeah, you know, it would mean a lot to you to do it with someone you're in a relationship with, while the 'modernists' would wonder what the fuss is all...
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    Help, im pregnant and 15.

    ...but there's no psychology in that. I also have a feeling that it's a joke, but why? I've studied most weapons of influence and manipulation at uni...bless Dr Z. for those who know what I'm talking about! I mean, okay, there might be other reasons in it...but moral debate or not, it's been an...
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    Sex before marriage, would you or wouldn't you?

    N.B. I don't believe in the 'extremist' view anymore - in this post and last. Yeah, I admit, I'm kind of less religious now (Buddhist). Though I can't imagine getting punished for being in a loving relationship. Oh, I did admire their determination, something like, save the best for...
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    Help, im pregnant and 15.

    The bottom line is, you'll need to find a compromise between religion and practicality. No regrets. This thread just made me realize how much I've changed...I used to be all for the "don't kill the baby" decision, never considering the consequences. Too much discrimination there...and they...
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    Sex before marriage, would you or wouldn't you?

    Respect for the body?! That's one...Commitment's another. Well, you're a guy, the more chicks you get --> stud. I get it. =) I used to be whotchucallit...'extremist'?! I only admired those who saved themselves for marriage back then, but now I go for the long-term commitment one.
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