Mm yeah but we've only been going out for one month. I think, I don't know, not counting till we get to the 6 month.
It's not that important, I think it's something that works itself out over time.
If I'm still with him after 6 months, we'll have a talk about it.
I'm so not a PDA person. I'll peck or hug or be silly with my boyfriend in public, but we hardly ever hold hands even.
I have mates who are all over their guys, and I'm not in the least bit tempted to be like that. Generally it just makes other people feel uncomfortable.
Well because I, like every other girl around here will tell you that you have a lot to lose!
Once commitment sets in, you're cruising along and generally don't see a break up on the cards, even when it is.
And all that time and effort is for nothing. You feel like you've wasted the time that...
Oh yes well. Thanks Captain Gloomy.
It's nothing to do with past relationships really, the point is, I'm happy single but I'm happy with this man too.
The problem is the commitment part. I have a rule not to get too emotionally attached until you reach the two month stage. Primarily because I...
It's a lot of guesswork huh!
You never know, there are so many guys out there- how can you be sure one is right or wrong for you? And people change etc etc
Ah it's a scary thought.
Hahahhaha ahh that's funny.
No I'm pretty much the most self confident person out there. I'm not stuck up, but I'm totally happy with myself, inside and out.
It's just that fear of giving yourself to someone emotionally and what happens if it screws up, m'dear. It's to do with committing rather...
Yes it's that too for me.
I'm fine when I'm single and that's it- I'm happy with myself and I can go out and have a good time with my friends etc. There's nothing wrong with that.
But what if I emotionally invest in this guy and then get my heart broken, again? I guess that's what you're...
Hell no!
All the guys who think they're cool but actually aren't wear black shirts, and it's not the right look.
Stick to white and light blue.
But whoever said it before, if it's black tie then black tie dress ie white shirt.
Oxymoron, I know. And yes, I'm a moron.
I'm not good with ye olde commitment because I've been burned pretty badly in the past, but I've got a lovely guy who I really like now. Even though he's lovely, I'm scared of getting hurt again, but I want to let myself like him more.... but I don't...
It all depends on the people and the situation... Most of us can't see how someone would want to get married that quickly, I know I don't. But then again there are people out there who've known each other for a short time, married and are perfectly happy.
But divorce rates are massive these...
my current boyfriend's best friend and i were on the schoolies cruise together, last year.
a month or so ago, i invited him out for a drink to celebrate a birthday, he brought his best mate along, and now his best mate is my boyfriend.
WIN!
Fights aren't about winning and losing.
If that's the way you think about it then you're clearly not mature enough to be in a propper long term relationship.
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