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Well I'm dating a guy who wouldn't say he was "in love" with me if his life depended on it! I wonder about that, are there some guys out there who wouldn't use the term "love" at all? I mean, I don't know if I believe in love, but I guess I'd use it eventually, if I was convinced.

But how do you know when that feeling is a "real" feeling of love?? Tackle the hard issues here people!

I don't know why, but the idea of ALWAYS wanting to be with someone is kinda scary. I mean, wouldn't you want your own space? Wouldn't you get sick of that person eventually? I don't know the answers to these questions, but anyone can feel free to chip in

Okay. Well. Anyone else got other answers? :s

What if you're happy with AND without them? That you can spend 4 days appart and miss them but it's not like a major thing. It's just a thought of "oh, I'd like to see him but it's ok, I can do without too"... but you're attracted to them physically and like them a lot, for their personality and...

But what if nothing changes in your "gut" from the time you meet them to two months into dating them? Like, you know you like someone, but what makes it love? I can't work it out.

Okay well I've been asking this one for a few days now, but I thought I might as well post it here to see what replies I get. How do you know something is love rather than simply lust, infatuation or familiarity?

In the last week and few days I have gotten: A new dress Gripp jeans Shoes Hair straightener Top

It all depends on how much you involve yourself with someone emotionally. If it's pure physical then it's not going to be weird, if it's relationships etc then it probably will be. Depends on the people in a particular situation.

See, Redgoddess, are you a Adriana Lima lookalike or not? This question must be answered. My best friend and one of her good mates hook up a lot when they're drunk, and its never weird between them. They just go back to being mates the next day because it's nothing serious.

Get to what?

Have you guys had sex yet?? Please hurry it up if the answer is no, this is all too sweet and sickening to continue haha :p

Do what Dan says- go to kiss her and see what happens.

"I don't like you" "I don't love you" "I'm seeing someone else"

You think I'm so cruel :( I'm not, I'm really nice.

Oh Skeeta dear, I full well know I AM going to get hurt. Its a running theme in my relationships. That I'm bracing myself for! I wasn't saying that I'm "grown up" and thats that, I'm saying as you "grow up" ie get older, experience more stuff, go through more relationships etc

My dear, go through three bad breakups and you'll know why I'm not just flinging myself at men. Plus, thats an excellent way to get hurt. If he gets serious then I'll think about committing emotionally. Untill that time (if it comes), I'm happy just having fun and not thinking to hard about...

Well as soon as someone can define love for me and why it's so important to be "in love" with someone rather than just being happy as is.... well then I'll rethink how it is. For now things are cool just being cool. I've been asking people for about a day now how you can tell something is love...

No, it's actually quite good!

This is going to sound really weird, but I trust my boyfriend around other women because I don't love him. I mean, I like him a lot, I just don't know what love is so can't say I love him. But because I'm not 150% emotionally involved, I trust him, because if he does something wrong, it'll be...