'I love You' How long into a relationship is this line appropriate? (1 Viewer)

[james_chappo]

Just wondering what people's views are on professing their love to a partner. How long into a relationship is appropriate? Does it depend on the couple? I'm interested to know about other people's experiences.

 

[Loz#1]

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months or so and I'm yet to hear it.

 

[james_chappo]

Actually I'll rephrase that. How long should you know the person and/or be involved in a relationship with them - before you can be sure you really do love them?

 

[lotuschild]

when you know in your heart/gut its true and not simply lust. i said it to my ex of 2 years at 6mths, when i knew i was truely sure, which made it all the more special

 

[james_chappo]

I told my girlfriend after knowing her for about 2-3 months. My heart and mind are 100% sure I love her

 

[erawamai]

My bf said it to me after about a month

you were that good ay!

 

[lotuschild]

when your putting your clothes back on

wouldnt it be smarter to do it previous to that in attempt to get her to take them off?

 

[AsyLum]

Only when you succeed in impregnating her and her dad has the shotgun at your head.

 

[lotuschild]

WEELLLL the way i do it quite different. me and my mates see we have a system...u cant jst jump to I LOVE YOU. doesnt work like that. we have steps u take...cauz like sumtimes u don know if u love sum1 but u do realli care and as the steps go on u love em more...sorta...hard to explain...well the steps r

LUV YA
I LUV YA
LUV U
I LOVE YOU

note wen spellin if ur not ready 4 the love use luv...i swear 4 sum reason it seems less commiting...sorta... well thats how i work it anyways

grow up....

 

[kazan]

when your putting your clothes back on

 

[zop]

WEELLLL the way i do it quite different. me and my mates see we have a system...u cant jst jump to I LOVE YOU. doesnt work like that. we have steps u take...cauz like sumtimes u don know if u love sum1 but u do realli care and as the steps go on u love em more...sorta...hard to explain...well the steps r

LUV YA
I LUV YA
LUV U
I LOVE YOU

note wen spellin if ur not ready 4 the love use luv...i swear 4 sum reason it seems less commiting...sorta... well thats how i work it anyways

 

[james_chappo]

If you feel your heart saying you love a girl - then just tell her.

 

[james_chappo]

Hurry up dreamerish!!!

 

[Dreamerish*~]

Whenever you feel like you're in love. You're still young, you can still afford to make mistakes. Awhile ago I told a guy I loved him, only to realise later that I was nowhere near in love. It hasn't scarred me for life, I just look back and laugh.

For some people, it takes a couple of months. For others, it can take years.

My boyfriend said it to me after a month or so. It really was love-at-first-sight (as cheesy as it sounds), so we didn't take long to get to that stage.

EDIT: James_chappo, LOL! How did you know?!

 

[~ForAGoodCause~]

we said it after 2 months, and we've been together for nearly 8 months

there is no time period, just say it when you truely feel it

 

[james_chappo]

I love the subjectivity of love

 

[zop]

nah nah u got it all wrong...i have gf and ive bin wit her 4 9 months but i wasnt sure if i loved her completely or not...now i know i do but wen ur not sure the steps are a gr8 way to still expres ur feelings and not look like an idiot wen she says i love you and u say thnx

 

[james_chappo]

How did I know what? That Dreamerish was typing a message? I'm psychic

 

[Lhyviathan]

WEELLLL the way i do it quite different. me and my mates see we have a system...u cant jst jump to I LOVE YOU. doesnt work like that. we have steps u take...cauz like sumtimes u don know if u love sum1 but u do realli care and as the steps go on u love em more...sorta...hard to explain...well the steps r

LUV YA
I LUV YA
LUV U
I LOVE YOU

note wen spellin if ur not ready 4 the love use luv...i swear 4 sum reason it seems less commiting...sorta... well thats how i work it anyways

... Whatever.

 

[thejosiekiller]

if you are talking about sex, no, we did not even have sex at the time

he obviously said something that lead to it

i wonder what it was

the clincher as it were....

jk nat