Ty bro! that defenition is both succinct and open to interpretation making it "The perfect defenition" (for me ofcoarse cos i'm not saying there isn't better stuff out there but yeah...)
I'm not saying i'm an expert on this, but I am a catholic myself and I am 17 years of age. The longer you hide this situation from your family, the worse it will be when the truth comes out. You have said you're a catholic meaning you would know priests. My advice would be to talk to a priest...